My husband spends half his time living with another woman. Am I being trusting or naive?

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Husband – 37M

Roommate – 28F

I’ll try to explain this the best I can because I’m looking for outside perspectives.

I’ve been married to my husband for five years. His job requires him to be away around half the time at his company’s other location.

His younger brother lives in the same town as this other location, with a female roommate/ his best friend. Previously my husband has been staying in hotels. But his brother got deployed. Since he’s still paying rent there anyway and his roommate doesn’t like being alone all the time, his brother offered his place up to my husband until he comes back. So now half the time my husband is living with another woman.

I know they hang out, this isn’t just a cohabitation thing. They play video games together, cook together, etc. I didn’t think much of it but I was explaining it to my sister in law (my brother’s wife) and she said hands down there’s no way she’d be okay with that, and it’s a recipe for disaster.

Am I being trusting, or naive?

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