I used to work at a Cheesecake Factory as a server. About 1.5 years ago my current boyfriend came in with some other girl for a date. I’m not sure what it is about my boyfriend but he just does it for me. He’s not at all my normal type of guy I’m attracted to but for some reason he just makes me melt every time I look at him.
He’s got this super self assured smile and something about the way he talks gets me. He’s got this little chuckle he does and he always looks down and bites his lip after…he’s just like it for me.
So I immediately rushed over to their table. Typically, if I saw a guy I was attracted to I could give better service because I genuinely wanted to interact with him and everyone at the table and that usually lead to nicer tips.
When I started serving them, I couldn’t help myself and I was flirting super obviously. So much so my coworkers were telling me to be careful I didn’t get complained on. But he flirted back so I was like a shark who smelled blood in the water.
I spent so much time talking to him at their table other tables I was serving had to call out to me because I’d forget about them.
Honestly, looking back that was more of a date for me and him than her and him because we talked about what he did for work, what I studied, what my favorite foods are, what he likes, music. I must have been at that table, accumulatively, for around 40 minutes.
At the end of it she was being very short with me and him and I kind of figured she’d complain. So I said screw it, scribbled my number down and put it under his card when I gave it back to him.
He texted me that night and we’ve basically been dating since. I’m moving in with him on Friday.
It was honestly a very rude and sh*tty thing to do, but I’d do it over again in a second.