Single Father Criticized For Asking Legal Advice To Force ‘Deadbeat’ Mother To Become A Parent

Parenting is both gratifying and challenging, and most parents can confirm that it is not a part-time job. It takes a person to devote their lives to caring and financially sustaining a kid, even after the youngster has reached adulthood. Yet, not all are born with the ability to parent. There is some prejudice linked to a woman who does not want to be a mom, since women are still perceived as innately nurturing and maternal. This does not have to be the case, since many women continue to state that they do not desire or have an innate maternal instinct. In this story, the lack of his child’s mom’s maternal instinct irritated and angered a father, who sought advice on how to rectify the problem. Read the story and how you would react to this situation.

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We weren’t in a serious relationship when she got pregnant. She has never met our son. Even after the birth she had no desire to see him. We went to court to figure custody and support could be figured out and I have 100% full legal and physical custody. Her name is on the birth certificate but she has no custody and no right to visitation or to make things like medical or education decisions. She didn’t want any of that. Every month she pays 125% of the court ordered child support. She says that if I ever marry someone who wants to adopt him she will agree but until then she’ll pay support. It’s been this way since our son was born.

I’m raising our son all on my own. He is 18 months old now and he has never met her and I don’t even have any photos of her even. I am burned out and hate being a single parent. I love my son but I resent him. My family tries to help when they can but I do it most of the time. I would never hurt or neglect him but I am exhausted all the time. I tried to go to court to give her split custody but because she wanted an abortion and I didn’t and she made it clear she would never be involved after the birth, and because we went to court when he was 6 months old but because we already went after he was born and agreed on things and now she pays more support than is court ordered the judge said he can’t force her to look after him. I haven’t seen her in almost a year and the last I heard she has a tummy tuck and laser stretch marks treatment and is working at a gym. She also told her friends and family she is an egg donor and not a mother. She is a deadbeat mom and the court won’t do anything and is forcing me to struggle as a single parent. Do I have any legal remedies here?

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