Life is hard. One should always be positive to make life easier. Not all will be happy with you so forget to please people and learn to love yourself first. In this story a girl who felt lonely needed some positive affirmation. Read the story to know what she did and let us know what are your thoughts about it.
I’m a 22 year old female. I’m introverted, I had one boyfriend who cheated on me 8 months ago and since then found it incredibly difficult to socialize. Not that many people made an effort. I’m simple, I dont have social media, I have a few friends but they don’t really speak to me much. I’m average looking. Pretty insecure since my breakup. I’m in college and on weekends work a 12 hour shift at a fast food restaurant to make ends meet.
I dont know I felt really lonely, so I knew of a guy who works with me who told me his friend is doing sex work. I found him on Facebook and he told me how much he charged. Also asked me a bunch of questions about my sexual health. I never planned on sleeping with him, I just didn’t want him to find me weird.
Anyway we met at a hotel, I told him I didn’t want to have sex I just wanted to be held and given words of affirmation and care. He agreed and I paid him. I gave him flashcards. They all said things like I’m proud of you, you’re doing so well, you’re strong, did you eat, are you okay, I know you can do it, etc etc. And he just held me until our hours were up and then I bolted and I felt so ashamed and had to tell someone. But I don’t speak to anyone so here I am. I need some advice on if I’m wrong.? Did I go too far here?
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